People born in 1990, are you okay now？
Today is September 23, 2019, and there are still 99 days before the end of 2019.
After 99 days, the first batch of 90 born in 1990 will really be 30 years old.
Although this is only an age figure, it doesn’t really mean anything. However, in the face of such a ritualistic life intersection, the mentality of people born in 1990 facing many problems is still subtly changing.
It’s no wonder that there will be soul torture in Zhihu: What’s your status now, the first batch of post-90s students who are going to be in their third year?
Mature? Steady? Old? Lying flat to life?
People born in 1990 are giving their own answers with life.
Celebrate sb’s birthday
Stand a candle
People born in 1990 have had enough birthdays.
He doesn’t even love birthdays anymore. Facing the surprise party prepared by their friends, they worked hard to pretend to be surprised and happy. The moment they blew out the birthday candles, their wish was: Don’t scare me so much next year.
Yes, people born in 1990 have no feelings about birthdays. If there is, it can only be: Mom *, why am I one year older?
It’s time to refuel
chip in (to buy a gift)
Establish a new social outlook
People born in 1990 received a wedding invitation from Xiao Xiao-a link to an electronic photo album using H5 template.
Considering that I haven’t seen this young man for more than 9 years, people born in 1990 sent their wedding wishes through WeChat for the first time.
But I didn’t intend to follow the crowd.
wedding
Set up a vision for love
People born in 1990 have no travel arrangements for this National Day holiday. The three wedding invitations on October 2, 4 and 6 perfectly chopped up all their possibilities of traveling.
Usually, the female students who meet at weddings become beautiful, and the male students become fat; The study Committee member went to BAT to be a Guan Peisheng, with more contacts and less hair; The literary and art committee members are starting their own businesses from the media, and they tell everyone that we are in Tik Tok.
There are not many topics to talk about. It’s nothing more than Xiaoxue of "Family with Children" has recently made a new play. Have you heard about it? It’s so funny. Are you playing ANT FOREST? It’s the same meaning as stealing food in those days.
On the big screen, there is a micro-movie reviewing the process of new acquaintance. At this moment, the lights are dense and the background music is "Confession Balloon". People born in 1990 suddenly realized that even Jay Chou was the father of two children. Maybe I should find someone myself.
People born in 1990 used to scoff at love and marriage.
Buy a house
Liye anjia
People born in 1990 are considering buying a house.
This may be the biggest challenge they have faced so far, and it seems to be more like another advancement in life. He can find countless reasons and excuses for not buying a house, but he wants to have his own home-just like nature calling. The closer he is to 30 years old, the stronger the 90-year-old people feel about it.
People born in 1990 used to sneer at buying a house. My life is up to me, how can I be bound by a set of dozens of square meters of humble abode? What’s wrong with me if I have the money to buy a house?
But now, he has a second thought.
Wechat group sunbathing baby
Set up a person
Under the repeated ridicule of a group of WeChat public accounts, people born in 1990 finally learned to restrain themselves in the circle of friends and be presumptuous in small groups after becoming mothers. Never expose the baby easily.
However, there are only one or two groups that can make them licentious, with about three or four members. At first, everyone will respond enthusiastically: ah, ah, ah, ah, so cute, so fast. Unfortunately, in a few days, it became a state of no answer.
But people born in 1990 will stick to it. The friends in the group watched silently, not boasting, but not annoying.
For people born in 1990, this is a very noble friendship.
* Note: The story is also true if the above words "being a mother" are replaced by "having a kitten" and "publicly drying the baby" are replaced by "publicly drying the cat".
Brain theater before going to bed
Sleep at once
People born in 1990 once had a rich little theater in their brains before going to bed.
They will fantasize about becoming Kabuto, Harry Potter, Iron Man, ever-changing KINOMOTO SAKURA, or having a digital baby of their own.
But now, people born in 1990 have bid farewell to the small theater in the brain for a long time.
When they got home from work at twelve o’clock in the morning, they fell asleep.
buy insurance
Standing guarantee
People born in 1990 bought insurance for their parents last month under the help of Amway, a colleague.
If you don’t hurry, your parents can’t buy serious illness insurance after they are 60 years old.
People born in 1990 bought themselves a copy by the way.
Before they can’t afford a house, this is the only thing that can make them feel a little more practical.
New sideline
Set up a sideline
People born in 1990 placed an order for iPhone 11 Pro.
They have a good reason to buy: they need a better equipment to start shooting vlog. This is a "new sideline" they have planned for themselves. These days, the main business may not be strong, but there must be sideline business.
Oh, by the way, their last sideline was to be a part-time illustrator. The iPad Pro bought for this purpose is playing "Legend of Wulin" on the dining table at the moment.
MBA
New learning calendar
People born in 1990 made many new friends in the MBA class on weekends.
They chatted very speculatively, after all, they were all born after 90.
Office spine exercises
Stand up the cervical vertebra
People born in 1990 were sitting well at the workstation and suddenly began to write the word "dung" with their heads.
The post-1995 children in the company thought they were missing the feeling of disco dancing, while the post-1980 seniors knew that they just started doing office cervical gymnastics.
I learned it perfunctorily at the age of six and used it as a life-saving skill at the age of thirty, cervical gymnastics.
do textual research
Set new goals
People born in 1990 decided to start preparing for CPA(Certified Public Accountant), for which they have read all the relevant experience stickers in Zhihu.
Although in their hearts, they don’t even think they can really pass the exam.
But people born in 1990 still enjoy the process of applying for the exam. This makes them feel that they are still working hard.
predecessor
there’s no making without breaking
People born in 1990 have become desensitized to the word predecessor.
People born in 1990 can behave decently if they meet their predecessors by chance. They greet each other like acquaintances, as if they have evolved into another kind of middle-aged friendship.
On the last day of 2017, people born in 1990 watched movies with friends for the New Year’s Eve. There was almost only the film of "Former Three" in the cinema. They reluctantly entered the scene, and then found that their collarbone fossa was full of tears when the movie was over.
Is it a memory of your predecessor? Or do you mourn for your lost youth?
tears
An untenable tear
People born in 1990 have higher and higher tears.
The last meeting was scolded by the boss, and everyone could take it in stride. At best, it’s humiliating, at worst, it’s not afraid of being scalded.
But on Monday night, watching the MV of Say No to Cry, people born in 1990 still shed tears.
They didn’t think the song was beautiful either, but why did they cry?
idol
The "power" of idols
People born in 1990 don’t talk about it, but in fact they don’t understand how children are so obsessed with Sean Xiao, YiBo and Li Xian.
This may be because they have a bad memory. They were pretty good when they chased Super Junior.
Han Geng was so handsome.
Plain is true.
Learn to be independent
People born in 1990 no longer think about where to eat midnight snack after work, but honestly go to fitness to continue their lives; Instead of going to disco to sing K with friends on weekends, I read books and do housework to spend a more normal day than working days.
Yes, this group of the earliest post-90s have already started to like doing housework. Cooking for yourself is too lazy to take photos and send friends. Wiping the table and mopping the floor, ironing clothes and cleaning cat hair, I don’t know when it started, these trivial things have brought them more satisfaction than friends’ compliments and politeness.
It is said that the nightclubs have been occupied by the post-00 generation, and people born in 1990 will not have any waves in their hearts.
Plain is true-it’s not just the mentality, but also the pace of life.
The first batch of post-90 s people are almost a group of people who have been concerned and consumed the most by social media in recent years:
The first batch of 90′ s is already cold.
The first batch of post-90s stomachs have collapsed.
The first batch of post-90 s have been divorced.
The first batch was bald after 90.
The first batch of 90-year-olds have become monks.
The first batch of post-90 s has been secularized.
……
I have been written so much that the first batch of post-90 s don’t even know what I am.
Just like at the moment, when they are about to enter the "thirty-year-old", they are inevitably at a loss: Have I really stood still?
That’s why there is such a hot question on Zhihu: "Have you really realized that you are standing at 30?"? However, there is no standard answer to this question, and everyone can only answer it himself.
Fortunately, when people born in 1990 began to seriously think about "standing at 30", they were already on the road to "standing".
But remember, even so, don’t rashly classify the post-90 s as middle-aged people. Middle age has never been a concept only related to age. Who’s not a cutie yet?
You after 90.
How do you plan to meet the upcoming 30 years old?
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Planning: GQ laboratory
Producer: Rocco
Editor: Rabbit
Written by: S, Piaojuanjun, Xiao Wang, e+, Rabbit
Illustration: Chinese yam medicine
Vision: aube
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